Every creature is beautiful, you
just need right vision to see it!
This post is for all those who
have gone through the phase which I have been. Here, “I” is “We” who have
suffered this sudden pain which is hard to forget.
We all love asking questions, don’t
we?
- Curious questions asked by your kid.
- Romantic--will you?
- Those comforting lines from your family. These are treasured for life.
At the very point, there are
those questions which bother us, which haunt us for life, which makes you burst
out of anger.
Questioning myself about few things
which I had been through, I started sipping my coffee while I awaited my friend’s
arrival. It all started when I overheard someone describe me to someone else on
a call saying, don’t you know that ugly and plump one?
Why am I labelled so? Instead,
why can’t I be described as “one with a beautiful smile, one who is selfless,
one who is entertaining? Is it the liberty I have given or is it about that
person who doesn’t have a right vision to see me in a good way? Negative comments
on physical appearance is none of anybody’s business, until they have gone through
the pain what a mother has suffered while bringing her bundle of joy to this
world. Lots of questions struck me hard, hit me straight to heart and thoughts
started rolling down. Of course, I cannot expect everyone to think the way I
do, but this incident for sure enlightened me to treat and see other person in
the same way I want to get treated.
We cannot judge a book by its
cover and a person by their looks. A short person was once a successful prime
mister of India, A stout person is a dance choreographer, A person without a
leg climbed Mount Everest. There are many such living legends amongst us, still
we end up forgetting and start judging.
Everyone is fighting a battle which
we never know. A person with a crippled hand would have served his family so
hard that he is in that state today. One who looks dark would have burnt
herself in the scorching sun to feed her family. One who looks overweight could
actually be a person who eats less than a child and could be in a severe
medical condition. We are considered beautiful the day when we start
understanding minor issues of a suffering soul.
Back to my last sip of coffee and
off my thinking cap, I see a lovely smile flaunt at me and he calls me- “Hey Beautiful,
sorry for making you wait.” Then I realised, okay… my partner in crime is no different
than I am, in the way we think. He was expecting a shout back from me for
making me wait, instead the situation made me melt for the kind of attitude he
had in treating me or anyone for that matter.
Concluding my thought with this meaningful
quote “People will forget what you said, People will forget what you did But
people will never forget how you made them feel.”-- Maya Angelou
I am the way I am, I love the way
I am!
PS: Penning mine and my best
friend Manjula’s thoughts in this post. Hope the justice is made. Thanks for
asking me to write this.
Ranju...
